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Hide Facebook Friend Activity

August 16, 2013 Computers Made Simple 1 Comment

For some of you, Facebook is all about who is on your friend list. That’s what it’s all about, right? We’ve shown you how to keep your friend list hidden completely or partially. Today we’re going to show you how to keep your ‘friending’ activity private.

Facebook’s privacy can be divided into two sections. The first is the things you have, such as friends, photos, likes, videos, notes, etc. The second section is the things you actually do while you’re on Facebook. All of the clicking, sharing, posting and so on are actions. Here’s how to hide one of those actions, we’ll call it ‘friending’. Friending is when you add a friend to your list, obviously. Can you think of a reason why that particular activity has to be public? Why should anyone know who you just added to your list? That’s your business, isn’t it?

Steps to Hide Your Friending Activity

1. Click on your name up on the top left of any Facebook Page. This will take you to your Timeline.

2. Once your Timeline comes up, click on Activity Log.

Photo of Facebook Hide Friending 1 — **Start with your Activity Log.**

3. The next page lists everything you’ve done lately. That’s not what we want. Look on the left middle for the word MORE. There are two but we want the top one, just under Comments. Click it.

Photo Facebook Hide Friending 2 — **Click More.**

4. On the longer list that opens, look for the word Friends. Click it.

Photo of Hide Facebook Friending 3 — **Click Friends to bring up the right page.**

5. This page shows your ‘friending’ activity, adding and subtracting friends. Look up on the top right for a new icon. We’re not sure what the icon represents but click it anyway.

Photo of Hide Facebook Friending 4 — **What do you think this icon represents?**

6. To hide your activity, uncheck everything that can be unchecked. One choice can’t be unchecked, simply because when you add a friend, you have to be able to see their profile. If that’s hidden, how would you know who your friends are?

Photo of Hide Facebook Friending 5 — **To hide everything you can, make sure your box looks like this.**

7. Your choices in this box will only take affect from this point on, it won’t hide your past activity. For that, go down the list and choose ‘Hidden from Timeline’ for anything that you might want to hide. As you know, or as you should know, Facebook has little warnings here and there about the stuff you try to hide. Here’s what they have to say about all of this:

Photo of Hide Facebook Friending 6 — **A reminder from Facebook. You can hide YOUR friend list but what if your friends don’t hide theirs?**

We hope we’ve given something to think about over the last two weeks. Even if you don’t agree with our suggestions on hiding everything, at least you’ll know how to help your kids, your parents, anyone who isn’t tech savvy enough to figure it out for themselves. Good luck on your journey to a more private Facebook experience.

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The Perfect Facebook Profile (Part 2) – Hide Everything About You

August 13, 2013 Computers Made Simple Leave a comment

You’ve all heard the term ‘need to know’, right? As in, that’s all on a need to know basis. Well, Facebook loves to know all about you. That way it can streamline its ads to fit your demographic. The problem is that strangers can find all about you too. Even your friends don’t need to know everything. If some of them already have your phone number and email, why would you need to share that information on Facebook? Here’s how to hide as much as you can. Before we begin, make sure you ask yourself, “Who needs to know this?” when you’re filling in your details.

1. All of your settings for this are available from your own Timeline so click on your profile photo up on the top left of any Facebook page.

2. Once you’re on your Timeline, click on the word About.

Photo of About Facebook 1 — **Click About to begin this trip to privacy.**

3. On the page that opens up, you’ll see some of the details that Facebook feels you should share with the world. These include where you work, where you live, whether you are married or single or if you have a family, etc. They also want your contact information. It’s up to you, of course, but we don’t think you should just open yourself up to everyone.

Photo of About Facebook 2 — **This all should be on a need to know basis.**

4. For each section in this area, there is an icon on the top right that allows you to edit each of them. There are two parts to this editing. First, you can fill in the information and then you can set the audience for that information. The question you have to ask yourself is whether your friends need to know all of this or whether complete strangers need to know it.

5. If you’re unemployed and looking for work or if you’re single and looking for a partner, you might want to fill out more information. If you’re just a casual user, you don’t have to tell anyone anything much about you. Some of the stuff is harmless. Your favorite quotations or the section ‘About you’ seem harmless. You can tell jokes here, reveal some basic info but you don’t have to go overboard. Click on the ‘See More’ words at the bottom to bring up the full section.

Photo of About Facebook 3 — **This is what you see when you click the See More button.**

6. When you click the Edit icon, you bring up a form with blanks that you can fill out. Each area has another icon where you can choose who you want to share these bits of information with. We like to keep most things set to ‘Only me’ while others we choose ‘Friends’. There is nothing here that we think should be Public but that’s up to you. Set your own limits but be prepared for the consequences if you open yourself up to the world.

Photo of About Facebook 4 — **Who needs to know what? We think that no one needs to know very much at all.**

If you want to open your life to strangers, Facebook and friends that you don’t know very well, fine. We like to keep things private. We are what we post and share, none of this other stuff means anything. Your friends know where you are so why does Facebook need to know that? They only want to know so that they can stream ads that you might click on. You’re nothing but a commodity to Facebook, one of millions of potential clicks on an ad, that’s all you are. Once you realize that, you’re well on the way to figuring out Facebook. Yay you!

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The Perfect Facebook Profile – How to hide everything from strangers

August 12, 2013 Computers Made Simple Leave a comment

What makes a perfect Facebook profile? One that reveals the absolute minimum about you. Why? Because Facebook is desperately trying to increase its hold on your life and will use parts of your profile in ways that you never imagined. Check out this ‘facepile’:

Photo of Facepile — **Hover over the Facebook icon and this pops up.**

This looks innocent enough, doesn’t it? Ten nameless faces. But wait! Hover your mouse over any of them:

Photo of Facepile from Seventeen Mag — **What’s this? A name to go with the photo?**

You might say, “So? What’s the big deal here?” Well, so far we have a face and a name. Let’s see what else we can get from this Facebook facepile.

Everything you wanted to know but were afraid to ask. Hell, you don’t even have to ask, do you?

What can we find out about this person simply by clicking on her profile? Nothing more than her city, her high school, her original home town, her age, if she’s in a relationship, who her friends are, all of her photo albums…well, you get the point.

This is why we are concerned about your privacy. If you’re not worried, move on to something else. If you are, stick around. By the end of this week you’ll know how to lock up your profile completely, showing the world the absolute minimum that Facebook will let you. Why can’t you hide everything? Simply because Facebook is a social medium, that’s the point of it. Once you agree to Facebook’s terms of use, there are some things you can’t hide. We’ll show you how to minimize the threat of overexposure, even hiding those things that Facebook says you can’t hide.

That’s enough for today but here’s a link to our post on how to hide your Facebook profile photo thumbnail: Facebook Profile Photo Trick. In future posts this week we’ll show you how to:

1. Hide your friend list, everyone except your mutual friends (can’t hide them).

2. Hide your personal information, the stuff you see under the About button on your Timeline.

3. Your activity, at least as much as Facebook allows you to hide.

and more! This site is a wealth of information about Facebook and many other topics. Stop by our Facebook page and click ‘Like’. That way, you’ll always be up to date on the how-tos and security updates that we post. Here’s the link: Computers Made Simple on Facebook.

Thanks for reading! Questions and comments are always welcome, remember that.

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Facebook Privacy Settings – Part 4 What can or can’t be private

August 9, 2013 Computers Made Simple Leave a comment

We’ve covered a lot this week, haven’t we? The final step is outlining what you can control and what you can’t. Before we begin, take a look at this:

Photo of Facebook Privacy Control 1 — **It looks like anything can be seen by anyone, right?**

Take this as a warning. As far as actions go, even if you remove something from your timeline, it still might be seen elsewhere on Facebook. Let’s just say that Facebook’s privacy control is full of holes. Therefore, expect the worst. If you feel that something you’re about to do is risky, don’t do it.

Things you can control completely, more or less:

1. Photos you post yourself that are NOT profile pic thumbnails or timeline cover photos. Every other photo can be limited to you or to some friends or to everyone on Facebook. Profile pic thumbnails and timeline covers are PUBLIC. Anyone who you have not blocked can see them.

2. Videos that you post. You can set the privacy for any video when you post it or after the fact. The key word is POST. If you share something, you cannot control who sees it.

3. Notes that you post. Again, you can set the privacy when you post the note or afterwards.

4. Status updates. The last thing you can control, more or less completely, are your status updates.

5. Likes/Interests. By likes we mean pages that you like, musicians, movies, books that you like, etc. You can hide some or all of them. We’ve written many posts on this explaining how to do it, how to get them back and so on. Use the search box on any page to bring up the instructional posts on this topic.

Get used to using this box when you are posting anything on Facebook:

Facebook Privacy Control 2 — **Use this box for everything you post on Facebook.**

Things you post that you cannot control using privacy settings:

1. Timeline cover photos. These photos, the big image behind your profile pic, are PUBLIC. Anyone who can see your profile, even if you’ve hidden everything else, can still see this picture. There is nothing you can do about it so be careful what you post here.

2. Profile thumbnail pics. Your profile photo can be controlled via the privacy dialogue pictured above, either when you post it or afterwards. The thumbnail, the smaller photo that everyone sees, is PUBLIC. Remember that. Use our guide to protect your profile photo thumbnail: Profile Photo Trick

3. Likes and comments on things that someone else posted. This is the most confusing part of Facebook, right? Everyone seems to have a problem with this. If you didn’t post it, it’s out of your control. If you comment, like or share something that someone else posted, everything is controlled by the original poster’s privacy settings. You cannot hide that fact that you like someone’s photo. They will know it, their friends will know it, your friends will know it….well, you get the point. Once you step out of the relative safety zone of your own posts, you’re lost in the void that is Facebook. Be careful.

4. Mutual friends. While you can hide your full list of friends from your other friends, you cannot hide any mutual friends.

5. Some photos. Read 1 and 2 again, just to be sure.

6. The ‘About’ you box on your Facebook profile. You can hide some things about yourself, not everything. We’ve done post on this in the past but we’ll do another update soon. Read this post, Facebook – Get your Likes Back , to figure out how to hide or unhide your likes/interests.

Here’s something you should see, brought to you by Facebook:

Photo of Facebook Sections Warning — **Everything looks good until you read the very last line at the bottom.**

See the greyed out sections at the top? You can’t hide those sections, at least not everything in them. Check or uncheck the other sections, according to your preferences. After you do that, read the line at the bottom. We’ve copied it here, just in case you miss it:

“If you hide a section, individual stories can still appear on your Timeline, in News Feed and elsewhere on Facebook”.

In other words, you can’t really hide very much of your activity on Facebook. You should look at your actions on Facebook in two different streams; things that you post and things that you do. As we’ve said above, you can hide most of the things you post. As far as the things that you do (liking something, commenting on something, sharing something), you cannot hide any part of it. Even if you think you can, Facebook tells you that it might appear ‘elsewhere on Facebook’.

Wow, it’s been a long week for us. Lots of research and some wordy but, hopefully, informative articles too. Please comment, ask questions, yell, scream or just say hi in the comment box at the bottom. We’re here to help, don’t forget that.

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Facebook Privacy Settings – Part 3 Profle Photo Trick

August 8, 2013 Computers Made Simple 1 Comment

Facebook week continues here on Computers Made Simple. In our last two posts we’ve shown you the ins and outs of posting something and setting the privacy limits for it, then we described the various photo albums and their limitations. Today we’re describing how to adjust privacy for your profile photo.

Profile Photo Trick – As we told you here: Facebook Photos and Albums , some Facebook albums have different privacy settings than others. One album that we are concerned about is the Profile Pictures album. Your profile photo is made up of two parts, the thumbnail and the main photo. Everyone can see the thumbnail, remember that. You choose who can see the full photo. Here’s how to have a profile pic that doesn’t reveal too much.

1. Before we begin, remember that when you upload a new profile photo, it is set to ‘Public’ by default. You have to change that setting to ‘Friends Only’. The thumbnail will remain public but the photo itself can be made private. We’ll show you how.

The first time you change your profile photo, Facebook tells you that the photo is Public…but you can change that.

2. Click on your profile photo up on the top left of any Facebook page. This brings up your Timeline. Next, hover your mouse on the photo and choose ‘Edit profile picture’.

Hover and choose Edit Profile Picture.

3. We strongly suggest that you choose ‘Upload Photo’ or ‘Take Photo’ (you can only use this if you have a webcam attached to your computer.) The reason we want you to use a new photo is that you can edit the thumbnail much better with a new pic. If you use one of your old profile photos, this trick doesn’t work quite the same way.

Upload Photo or Take photo, both will work for this.

4. Choose the photo you want to use. This is the one we chose for this post:

An ex-sports star with his fleet of cars. Note that you can see his face in this full profile pic.

5. Facebook uploads the photo. Initially, this is what we saw when we uploaded this photo:

His face is still visible. We’ll fix that.

6. Hover over the photo again and choose ‘Edit thumbnail’:

We want to Edit thumbnail.

7. When the Edit Thumbnail dialogue comes up, drag the photo around until you can’t see or can’t recognize the person (you) in the photo:

Drag the small image around until you can’t be seen. Do NOT choose Scale to Fit.

TIP: If you choose ‘Scale to Fit’, Facebook simply makes a very tiny copy of the full photo and uses that as the thumbnail. In some cases this might be fine but make sure the thumbnail doesn’t reveal too much.

8. OK, we’re almost done. The new photo is set to Public, right? We want to change that. Click on the thumbnail and the full photo comes up. On the right, there are two Edit buttons. Both do the same thing so it doesn’t matter which one you click.

Two edit buttons, choose either one.

9. We prefer to choose Friends for the privacy setting. That’s up to you but we don’t advise you to leave it set to Public.

Friends, right? Better than Public unless you’re trying to attract strangers.

Yes, there are quite a few steps to this but we think it’s worth it. If you’ve got kids who are on Facebook, share this trick with them. Unless they are desperately seeking friends who are complete strangers, maybe it’s better to hide their face. Are we taking this search for privacy a bit too far? We don’t think so. If you had any idea of what some people reveal to strangers, you’d probably agree with us. Click on some Facepiles and see what turns up. You’d be shocked.

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